As open and lovely as your relationship may be,there are few things your girlfriend won’t like you to know mostly out of protection for the relationship and partly herself.
1.About her past ; There’s no point gisting you about her ex or why she broke up with him,her body count or her crazy sex stories. There’s a high chance you use it against her on days you’re angry,you didn’t mean to throw shades you were just angry but then you already said it Yeah?
2.How much she loves you; Girls can be really emotional,we find it hard to hide our feelings towards the opposite sex but from experience and observation most of the time it is taken for granted,hence it’s best to let you know I love you but then not let you know it’s with all my heart.
3.She’s attracted to someone else; In this case she’s not letting you know because she doesn’t want you feeling bad and insecure. She does cherish what you both have but she’s human right? Plus the truth is you also check out other babes and most likely won’t tell her for the same reason.
4.Closeness rate with her male friends; No need letting you know how close she is with her male friends or the things they talk about so jealousy and insecurities don’t set in.
5.If she cheated; Both parties obviously keep this to themselves as it’s no good news to hear,she also wouldn’t want to talk about a random lip lock that happened because of a game or one she got from an admirer when she least expected it,partly because there isn’t enough courage to talk about it and mostly because she won’t be happy if it was the other way round.
6.Trivial family drama; she can deal with her family alone,no point bringing you into the picture,there really isn’t much you can do even if you know.
7.Friends and families opinion; Her family or friends might not like you. She loves you just as much as she loves her family and friends,you will definitely take offence,contempt and disrespect gradually set in.It will only affect the relationship sooner or later,might even be an excuse for a break up
8.She’s probably just in for the moment; Your girlfriend probably sees you as a boyfriend material and nothing beyond that,therefore she doesn’t see any future with you.She likes you a lot,enjoys your company and that’s just it,once the sparks are over it’s all over but she can’t sing that to your ears every day because it would make her seem heartless.
9.She’s craving a baby; there’s just this tingling feeling that overwhelms her when she sees babies Omg they’re just too cute! And she starts dreaming about her own and wishes for a sec that she could have one now… How weird will she sound if she voices this out?
10.Pretence; she pretends sometimes to be drunk or very sick more than she really is just because of the extra indulgence she gets at times like that… The love you show and seeing you fidget at that moment is priceless.
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